Love or Life

2007-04-09T22:31:00.000-07:00

IF YESTERDAY DID NOT END UP THE WAY YOU PLANED: DONT LOOSE YOUR HOPE & REMEMBER GOD CREATED, TODAY FOR YOU TO START AGAIN THE BEST IS YET TO COME.
DONT BE PUZZLED BY PROBLEMS, WHATEVER THEY MAY BE. ALWAYS FACE THEM AS IF THEY R EXAMINATIONS YOU HAVE TO PASS. BELIVE URSELF HAVE A GLORIOUR START OF THE WEEK

WHY WOMEN CRY?

2007-04-05T09:12:00.000-07:00

WHY WOMEN CRY?

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

The Pencil & The Pencil maker.

2007-04-05T09:00:00.000-07:00

The Pencil Maker took the pencil aside, just before putting him into the box.
"There are 5 things you need to know," he told the pencil, "Before I send you out into the world. Always remember them and never forget, and you will become the best pencil you can be."

" You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in Someone's hand."
" You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but you'll need it to become a better pencil."
" You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make."
" The most important part of you will always be what's inside."
And
"On every surface you are used on, you must leave your mark. No matter what the condition, you must continue to write."

The pencil understood and promised to remember, and went into the box with purpose in its heart.Now replacing the place of the pencil with you. Always remember them and never forget, and you will become the best person you can be.

You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in God's hand. And allow other human beings to access you for the many gifts you possess.
You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, by going through various problems in life, but you'll need it to become a stronger person.
Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make.mylaporemani:
The most important part of you will always be what's on the inside.
And
On every surface you walk through, you must leave your mark. No matter what the situation, you must continue to do your duties.

Allow this parable on the pencil to encourage you to know that you are a special person and only you can fulfill the purpose to which you were born to accomplish.
Never allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot make a change

The 'BE' Attitudes ......

2007-03-24T14:55:00.000-07:00

The 'BE' Attitudes

BE understanding to your enemies.

BE loyal to your friends.

BE strong enough to face the world each day.

BE weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.

BE generous to those who need your help.

BE frugal with that you need yourself.

BE wise enough to know that you do not know everything.

BE foolish enough to Believe in miracles.

BE willing to share your joys.

BE willing to share the sorrows of others.

BE a leader when you see a path others have missed.

BE a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.

BE first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.

BE last to criticize a colleague who fails.

BE sure where your next step will fall, so that you will not tumble.

BE sure of your final destination, in case you are going the wrong way.

BE loving to those who love you.

BE loving to those who do not love you; they may change.

Above all, BE yourself.

WOMEN

2007-03-24T14:31:00.000-07:00

WOMEN

They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up for injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without new shoes so their children can have them.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about a birth or a new marriage.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They have sorrow at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all S IZE S , in all colo rs
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world spin!
Women do more than just give birth.
They bring joy and hope.
They give compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have a lot to say and a lot to give.

Do More?

2007-03-22T23:03:00.000-07:00

Do more than exist. Live.
Do more than hear. Listen.
Do more than agree. Cooperate.
Do more than talk. Communicate.
Do more than grow. Bloom.
Do more than spend. Invest.
Do more than think. Create.
Do more than work. Excel.
Do more than share. Give.
Do more than decide. Discern.
Do more than consider. Commit.
Do more than forgive. Forget.
Do more than help. Serve.
Do more than coexist. Reconcile.
Do more than sing. Worship.
Do more than think. Plan.
Do more than dream.
Do more than see. Perceive.
Do more than read. Apply.
Do more than receive. Reciprocate.
Do more than choose. Focus.
Do more than wish. Believe.
Do more than advise. Help.
Do more than speak. Impact.
Do more than encourage. Inspire.
Do more than add. Multiply.
Do more than change. Improve.
Do more than reach. Stretch.
Do more than ponder. Pray.

I can't send message as it has restrictions on length!!!

2007-03-22T22:57:00.000-07:00

To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolls over to 60 this week, so here's an update:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
1415. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive ever

Winner & Loser

2007-03-22T22:53:00.000-07:00

Winners have dreams;Losers have schemes.
Winners see the grains;Losers see the pain.
Winners see the potential;Losers see the past.
Winners make it happen;Losers let it happen.
Winners see possibilities;Losers see problems.
Winners makes commitments;Losers makes promises.
Winners are a part of the team;Losers are apart from the team.
Winner always has a programmedLoser always has an excuse.
Winner says "Let me do it for you";Loser says "That is not my job".
Winners say "I must do something";Losers say "Something must be done".
Winner is always a part of the answer;Loser is always a part of the problem.
Winner sees an answer for every problem;Loser sees a problem for every answer.
Winners believe in win/win;Loser believe for them to win, someone has to lose.
Winner says "It may be difficult but it is possible";Loser says "It may be possible but it is too difficult".
Winner makes a mistake. he says "I was wrong";Loser makes a mistake; he says "It wasn't my fault".

Easy & Difficult

2007-03-22T22:47:00.000-07:00

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes ;
Easy is to talk without thinking Difficult is to refrain the tongue ;
Easy is to hurt someone who loves us. Difficult is to heal the wound...;
Easy is to forgive others Difficult is to ask for forgiveness;
Easy is to set rules. Difficult is to follow them...;
Easy is to dream every night. Difficult is to fight for a dream...;
Easy is to show victory. Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...;
Easy is to admire a full moon. Difficult to see the other side... ;
Easy is to stumble with a stone. Difficult is to get up...;
Easy is to enjoy life every day. Difficult to give its real value... ;
Easy is to promise something to someone. Difficult is to fulfill that promise...;
Easy is to say we love. Difficult is to show it every day...;
Easy is to criticize others. Difficult is to improve oneself... ;
Easy is to make mistakes. Difficult is to learn from them...;
Easy is to weep for a lost love. Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it. ;
Easy is to think about improving. Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action... :
Easy is to think bad of others Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt... ;
Easy is to receive Difficult is to give ;
Easy to read this Difficult to follow ;
Easy is keep the friendship with words Difficult is to keep it with meanings

LOVE

2007-03-21T00:06:00.000-07:00

LOVE

It hurts when you love somebody and not loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never to have the courage to let them know. May be God what us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that.
Love is when you take away the feelings; the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person. As sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness crossed, another opens but often time we look so long at the crossed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is when you can sit on porch, not saying anything and leave thinking this was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
It’s true that we don’t know what we have got until we lose it, but its also true that we have been missing until it comes. Giving someone all your love is never insurance that they will love you back! Don’t expect love in return: just wait for it grows in their heart but if it is doesn’t be content that it grew in yours.
There are things you would love to hear that you will never hear from a person whom you would like to hear it from, but don’t be so deaf as not to hear from his or her heart. Never say good bye if you still what to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
Love comes to those who hope although they have been disappointed to those who still believe, although they have been betrayed, and those who still love although they have been hurt before. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don’t go for the looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much, you just want to pick him or her from your dreams and hug them for real.
Dream What you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trial to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy, and enough money to buy me gifts!
Always put yourself in other people’s shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the next person too. A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, A timely word may level stress, a loving word may hear and bless.
The begging of love is to let those we love be themselves and not twist them with our own image-otherwise, we love only the refraction of ourselves we find in them. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes in their way
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who have searched and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with tears.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and headaches. When you were born, you were crying and everybody around you smiling, live your life and remember that when you will die, you are the one who will smiling and everybody around you crying.
If you love something, set it free, if it comes back to you, it will always be yours, if it doesn’t, it was never tours in the first place. But if it sits in your house, eats your food, sleeps on your bed and doesn’t seem to realize you had set it free, Its either you gave birth or married it. Love is something that you can’t understand, but you can if you belong to it.

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